Sweet Sage meets Oskar and Oskar meets the vacuum

This day there was a beautiful sky with just the right amount of warmth to make it a good day for zooming around the yard.
We haven't seen Sage for awhile. She's been out of town and is only back for a few days. She arrived early and greeted Lady May with such a sweet wiggle. She's 2 years old now and seems to be developing a calmer manner with loads more self control. What a sweet girl she's turning into.  

Sage - "Hi Lady May did you miss me?" I missed you"

This day was also the day we set aside for Oskar and brother Bentley to visit for a few hours. 
Sage seemed to know something was up and sat looking out the window even before they arrived. Im pretty sure she was watching for her mom but as luck would have it, she was still watching when Bentley and Oskar arrived.

Sage - "Hey? Do I get a new playmate today?"

I kept Bentley and Oskar outdoors for some ball play and chasing games before making introductions.  I could have stayed out all day and Oskar would still have a ton of energy left. I figured we might as well head indoors and I would keep a close watch on energy levels.  As always I have my separator gates up to limit the interaction during the excitement when dogs are meeting for the first time.

7 month old Oskar hasn't had many opportunities yet and is still learning appropriate greeting behaviour. I knew this meeting would require time and patience.  

Sir Bentley - "I don't get it. Why am I behind a gate? "
"You're keeping Oskar calm buddy. You're a very good influence on him."
Bentley- "Hmm oh ok."

Lady May and Sage stood watch and were eager for the boys to join them. They were all just a bit too excited to say hello so we just remained separate for a while longer. I puttered around the kitchen while everyone relaxed.

Sage - "Hey let us out I wanna meet the new boy!"

Soon little girl, soon. Let's try a hello through the gate and see how it goes.

Sage - "Okay buddy, that's close enough. Why do you have curly lips?"

Sage displayed all the appropriate behaviours to let Oskar know she wasn't comfortable yet. Good girl Sage.  We stayed separate for a while longer. Until both seemed more comfortable with each other's  presence in the house and Oskar was ignoring Sage behind the gate.
I decided to let Bentley in with Sage first for a happy reunion. They were both delighted to see each other again and eager to head outdoors.     

Sir Bentley - "Hey let's go outside and chase balls!"

When it was time for Oskar to enter. Sage was more confident and displayed it, but asked him to keep his distance.  She allowed an official meeting from Oskar who was listening to Sage's request to be left alone. Before heading outdoors Sage and Oskar spent sometime together while I watched and stood close by and monitored them.  They seemed comfortable enough so we headed out to the small play area where I could continue monitoring them.

Sage - "I hope you can read my body language."
Oskar - "Ya, I hear you. I'm not gonna touch you."

So out we went and as I expected Sage made a beeline to the pool with Oskar close behind.

After awhile we tried some toy time and all was great. Until, Oskar made the choice to 'herd' Sage during a chase me game and nipped her heals. Sage yelped like the entire pack had chomped on her and dropped into a submissive position. Oskar jumped back and retreated. Good Boy Oskar! 
The ball game continued and soon I opened up one more area for some extra play space.  Lady May and Bentley were playing contently with their balls and all were enjoying fun play.

Before long Oskar went into his instinctive herding mode again and as quick as a wink he lunged after Sage and nipped her back end. This time a bit rougher. Ut oh, not good Oskar. He was verbally reprimanded and quickly separated into the gated off yard. The game abruptly ended, right now!
His look was one of, "Wait a minute. What just happened. We cant I play that game? Why not?"

"Hey? When can I come back out there?"

After that moment Sage and Oskar were kept separate for the couple of hours that Oskar and Bentley remained.  I alternated between Bentley and Lady May with both Sage and Oskar taking turns. 

Sage - "I feel safer with just Sir Bentley."

I know little girl and we'll try another together time another day. For now you and Oskar can play with a divider gate between you. 

Oskar - "Hey, where's the little girl dawg? Look I got more toys to chase her with"

When outdoor time ended I put my inside divider fence up to give Sage an extra measure of security and again alternated buddy time with Bentley

Oskar - "I dunno why everyone's sleeping its not nap time yet!"

Oskar - "Why is there a fence between me and the little girl dawg?"

Sage - "It's up so I can sleep with out being disturbed or herded"

By the time lunch time came around, Oskar and I had plenty of time to practice listening skills and he certainly seemed to be a quick learner. We practiced "off/leave it" with a few kibble in his bowl. It was obvious his mom has been working with him on this skill. Way to go mom!

"Hurry say EAT so I can get that kibble before my brother does!"

We also spent a great deal of time doing some desensitizing with the vacuum. I had placed my vacuum in an obvious area the last time Oskar was here and replaced it there again this day. As I expected, there was no reaction to it as it stood quietly. I began by slowly moving it silently around the room. Both Bentley and Oskar were on point but made no move towards it. They received lots of positive praise and cookie tidbits for such wonderful behaviour. Step by step we progressed to the stage that is depicted in the following video. Great job boys! You are awesome!

Why is this a part of my complimentary 4 hour practice daycare day?
I use the vacuum so regularly and I can not always predict which day will be a vacuuming day or who will be present. It's important to me that all visitors can remain at a low level of comfort if I have to pull out the vacuum. I want to avoid as many negative associations while they are in my care.
Does it always work? No, not always. There are visitors who I k now are driven out of an area by the sight/sound of the vacuum. I can promise the vacuum is not used on those days.

For these two, I'm proud to say we're on the road to fearless vacuum days.
I'm looking forward to our next visit boys. I may even take a look at the lawn mower next.

Oskar - "I better get some sleep if there's yet another scary monster challenge."

Forever Royal, Forever Loved

Our sweet lil Molly's spirit returned to visit us yesterday. Of course she still sits snugly in our hearts and a part of her will always remain here with us. Now, literally.
Her mom and dad found the right time to share a small portion of lil Molly's ashes with us. She will remain a 'Forever Visitor' in our Forget-Me-Nots garden. Forever more!
Special thank you to her mom and dad, Dave and Debbie. In deep appreciation for acknowledging how much your little girl means to us.  We are still healing with you.

This sleeping puppy rests in the Forget-me-nots.
She lays in Memory of 'Our' lil Molly,
As if we could ever forget you darling!

We know she has long been reunited with her Royal Pack Leader, King. (Since April 29 2022)
Her very best friends, Princess MollyDawg, Duchess Sammy and so very many more who crossed Rainbow Bridge before her.

She will forever hold a place in hearts, and now also rests in our home and yard.
Forever she will sit beside King.

Your mom and dad loved you so much little girl as we do also. Who could ever imagine that you'd need to leave us. We know it was your time and we thank you for all those happy visits with us little girl.
Run free now sweetheart. Play with your buddies now.

Until we meet again!

A Heart full of love

Symbols of a reunion. The King and his little girl

I personally had a very difficult time dealing with lil Molly's passing. I felt the need to have a bit of her closer to me. Her mom and dad graciously handed down some of her personal belongings to me. Her big fluffy beds, her favourite toys and most of all 3 of her very most used and favourite blankets.
Her mom wanted to wash everything up before she sent it to me I begged her not to. I was able to collect a good amount of Molly's fur from her blankets and I've used some to make a special coaster for my morning coffee mug.

If you look closely you can see her fur in the resin coaster.
It looks like tiny scratches but its her fur.

She's on my mind continually and now I can see her fur when I enjoy my morning coffee. There are 13 little yellow daises set in the coaster with a few select items. A tiny gold bone or two, a set of paw-prints, hearts and arrows, a crown and a lock and key. There are also a few of my tears in the coaster though they cant be seen.
Forever Royal lil Molly
Forever Loved

April 29 2022
Rainbow Bridge welcomed in lil Molly